Davenport
11:08 Thu Sep 10
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normannomates 9:54 Wed Sep 9
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Mace66
11:07 Thu Sep 10
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I think it says quite a lot about her that she's willing to fuck off and leave her kids over Christmas
I'd just let her get on with it and make sure the kids have a great time which will mean not making a big thing out of her not being there.
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Mr Polite
10:57 Thu Sep 10
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Why is she selfish for wanting a few days away just her and her bloke?
Ok, a bit selfish for fucking the best mate, but we've all done it... haven't we?
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ooooh Morley Morley
10:51 Thu Sep 10
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If you've never had kids you can't comment.
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normannomates
9:54 Wed Sep 9
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The paddy will have some of your medicine eventually.
He'll subconsciously know already she's capable of deceit and a bit on the side..and that will eat him up.
Seems a proper selfish cunt this woman..but plenty about I'm afraid.
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Mike Oxsaw
8:30 Wed Sep 9
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Better to just leaving expecting a good hiding. For the rest of his life he won't know which shoulder to look over.
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Takashi Miike
7:05 Wed Sep 9
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steve, when the ex knocks this cunt on the head for a new bit of cock, and believe me she will, give 'matey' a good hiding
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collyrob
6:56 Wed Sep 9
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Mr Polite 8:58 Wed Sep 9
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Bit much that
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Stevethehammer
6:36 Wed Sep 9
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Fifth,
the same cunt mate
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Mike Oxsaw
5:33 Wed Sep 9
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Why is is that (some - you know who you are) posters want to gossip on, like a troop of fat, menopausal old washerwomen, about the irrelevant bits of this subject. Can't wait for your fix of EastEnders?
Steve's got an unexpected bonus of more time with his kids. Fuck the reason's why, him & his kids have got a result.
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Fifth Column
5:17 Wed Sep 9
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Steve
So, is Ireland boyfriend the one she left you for, or has she moved onto someone else after your mate?
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Mr Polite
4:57 Wed Sep 9
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So what is people's problem with this?
That she wants a few days away or that it is Christmas?
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Ricky Bobby
3:32 Wed Sep 9
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what mother would ever decide that
One who is loved up on cock! Clearly worrying more about her new relationship than her kids at the moment.
Kids in the long run will remember who was there for them and when, just be a great Dad and make use of the extra time you have with the kids... If the mother calls on Christmas Day to chat with them then don't answer it straight away, leave it an hour and she will realise what a c##t she has been.
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under the thumb
1:19 Wed Sep 9
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Absolutely spot on Russ......souind advice.
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Russ of the BML
1:18 Wed Sep 9
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Steve, if you can't understand it then how will kids??
Refer to:
stewie griffin 2:52 Tue Sep 8
It's not your job to explain why she is not with them at Xmas. It's hers. If they ask then just tell them to ask her when she gets back.
Your job is to make sure you and your kids have the best fucking xmas ever!
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Mike Oxsaw
12:29 Wed Sep 9
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Gruesome Dump 9:43 Tue Sep 8
I had to go down that path several times. Each time we went to court, she promised (PROMISED) it would never happen again and, each time, on the very first scheduled day I was due to have my kids "something came up" and she wouldn't either let me collect them or bring them to me.
After the 3rd or 4th instance she was informed prison was an option the courts may very well consider should it happen again and advised to make sure nothing within her power prevents the exchanges going ahead.
That seemed to do the trick on that front although she must have been seething at such loss of her power as my kid's mother (how DARE I divorce HER!! But the other way's quite reasonable. Expected as a family tradition even).
After about 6 months of this she decided to "dump" the kids on me (her loss): I think she simply couldn't hack them coming back happy and looking forward to the next time with me.
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ManorParkHammer
10:53 Wed Sep 9
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Her loss, your gain.
Kids tend to remember stuff like this.
Don't let it bother you.
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Luisa
10:46 Wed Sep 9
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Women are solipsistic and everything revolves around them subconsciously. They have an ability to convince themselves that they are in the right always. Her decision to leave the kids with you, in her mind, would be a bonus for you and she's being a great woman. We are fcked up but evolution has made us this way my friend.
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WestArt
10:29 Wed Sep 9
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Normally no 'winners' in this type of situation......
She may be thinking that a few days away on a jolly is a result but suspect that when she wakes up christmas morning without her kids.......
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Mr Polite
8:58 Wed Sep 9
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Son of Anarchy 1:02 Wed Sep 9
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Knowing how family focussed the irish are they will think shes a complete cunt when she says shes left her lids at home at her own choosing
Yes they'll be wondering why she isn't at home fucking them herself.
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Stevethehammer
8:21 Wed Sep 9
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Bruuuunnnooo I have never said the issue is I don't see my kids. I see them as often as I can, 2-3-4 times a week.
As said my main issue is the choosing of a man over her kids, just doesn't compute in my brain and as said before if it was me I would be called every single name under the sun, told I'm a bad father and face a custody battle.
In my opinion she needs her head examined for even thinking let alone choosing to spend Xmas away from the kids. As others have said though all I can do is make it the best one for the kids, they have got me and my side of the family, her loss is my huge gain.
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